This cyber dating thing is not for everyone.

What happened to the good old fashioned way of meeting people…like going out after work? Today’s NJMyWay is dedicated to our readers who believe that meeting people in person is a lost art.

We set out to find some of New Jersey’s finest after-work spots that attract business professionals like you. This was a very tough assignment. No really, it was!

We send out for Pazzo Pazzo (www.pazzopazzo.com/) in Morristown one Friday evening around 6:30, and the party had already started. The sexy space was founded more than ten years ago by former model and actress Ashley Lauren Fisher.

There was a mix of professionals and groups of women out for the night. We even stumbled across a group of very good looking men, all 6-foot-plus…our favorite size! 

The inside bar and lounge was lined with flickering candles for ambiance. Outside there was an open-air two-story garden bar filled with men and women, ages ranging from 30 to 50.  This well behaved and attractive crowd is supposedly a normal occurrence on any Wednesday, Thursday or Friday.

We recommend getting there around 6 p.m. if you want to be around like-minded professionals. Try the Margarita pizza appetizer chased down by the Desperatini or Blind Date cocktail.

Got a favorite watering hole where it’s actually possible to meet someone and have a good time trying? Drop us a line at This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it and we’ll share your choices with our readers.

No question the pool of candidates is bigger online. But bigger isn’t always better! And after all… sometimes seeing is believing.

Stay tuned…  our next Single Mission is a  chat with dating guru Evan Marc Katz (www.evanmarckatz.com).

Guest writer Andrea Gail authored this for NJ My Way.