NJMYWAY is all about you-- the new Jersey WOMAN who knows what she wants: the hottest styles, the best places, the right stuff-- all right here. Not across the river.

You are smart, confident, and you know what makes you look and feel best. You are as comfortable in a bulky Lands? End sweater as in a shimmery Tory Burch tunic dress. You define your style-- it does not define you.

You are busy, and your leisure time is precious. We’ll help find the best ways to enjoy it, from the most luxurious spa to a simple sunset hike.

We promise to give you the straight scoop. This is not a paid promotion. It’s a daily column that will be your eyes and ears-- and help you make great decisions about the best places to shop and visit.

Here’s what to expect:

Which L B D will take you from a holiday cocktail party to a summer wedding at the shore? There are some great gets at stores that market to teenagers. Try the Max & Cleo selection at Hip Chic (www.hipchicnow.com) in Upper Montclair.

You can’t go on a date without your studs! From real rocks to the finest ultra-chic fakes-- Stone Harbor’s got two great jewelry stores, right across the street from each other.

Where can you buy belts, whips, and boots?and not have to hide them from your kids? You’ll ride away with the hottest equestrian looks at Barnard’s Saddlery (www.barnardssaddlery.com), a quaint farmhouse nestled in the hills of Oak Ridge.

We’ll have plenty more like this, plus great re-gifting ideas for the holidays, and super spa getaways to reduce seasonal stress!

Starting today, and everyday, you will find NJMYWAY in your inbox. Best of all, we are free. No strings. No commitment. Read and enjoy. Mail it to a friend. Or two. We guarantee we’ll make your life better and easier. And maybe make you laugh. Like the song says-- we’ll do it your way.