How will you and your best friend relax and unwind after these crazy, chaotic holidays?

For you, we suggest a trip to Aquamedica (www.aquamedicaspa.com) in Long Branch.

For your little buddy, a visit to the Morris Animal Inn (www.morrisanimalinn.com) in Morristown.

You first: just down the street from Aquamedica, sunlight plays on the waves - a peaceful winter boardwalk scene. Inside this brand new glistening spa, the theme continues. A colorful light pattern of blue and green waves on the ceiling, tiles that feel like sand under your feet.

It's all so you, the mermaid, can shed your scaly winter skin and be buffed beautifully.

Dip your pedi-ready toes in warm red, blue, or green water. Spa owner Valentina Chistova suggests colors that help you relax, and get in the mood. In the massage rooms, you'll be oiled and pampered under the oceanic lighting - and even the luxury shower turns different colors.

Fifty miles away, your little companion is enjoying a first-class pet suite at this five star pet playground. A swim in the indoor pool, perhaps. Playtime in the carefully designed indoor exercise rooms. Frequent walks on a pet-friendly outdoor surface. Gourmet snacks. A massage, shampoo, and blow dry.

If your best friend is a kitty, she'll have a luxury loft with a flat screen TV to keep her company.

You'll both come away glowing and relaxed? it really takes the bite out of a cold winter's day!

Tomorrow: Dear Santa, what we really want is?